The Boys' Education Network (BEN) is a place where boys can come together to collectively discuss and come into dialogue with topics deemed to be taboo in nature, unimportant, or set to the peripheral in terms of young boys' developmental identity.
In this space, not only do we foster conversations that we deem are integral to the growth of and the depth of boys and their masculinity, rather, we cultivate this sense of a shared humanity through our own individual identities that not only highlights our strengths and similarities, but also appreciates our diversity and vulnerabilities.
Even though the tutoring program was conducted virtually, the compassion and presence of the coordinators and my fellow tutors compensated for the sense of community I lost during the pandemic. Having this atmosphere as an example made it easier to emulate on my own for my tutees — who I could see needed a friend just as badly as they needed help with their homework.